If you really want to make sure you have a realistic view of yourself, ask a few friends and family members to complete the form below as well and to rate you as they truly see you. After completing the form, they are to enter your email address. You will get the email with their score from this site but will not know who rated you as what - that is of course, if you asked more than one person at the same time to do so, which I strongly recommend you do for the sake of the relationships. And if you don't like what you see, don't get all mad and upset. Instead, ask yourself, why does my 'believed' self differ from my 'perceived' self.

 

Having the courage to have a good look at yourself, and at how others see you, are key components to change as we cannot change what we don't know needs changing.